Thursday 2 July 2015

'A BOLD IMMEDIATE ACTION' - Reaction to a real risk of danger.

"DEFUNCT IT"

-Starting life anew is one of the greatest challenges of the human mind. Because there's always a disenchantment associated despite achieving material comforts.

"CONFRONTATIONS" - Actually, are not that bad, as they sound initially or during our initial resistance to them. All we need, is just a little patience & courage to give them a try!

Each one of us, at some point of time, confront - 'confrontations' in its various forms. Be it confronting your failures, your believes, your expectations, your disappointments or the bigger ones like confronting your inner fears, or even yourself. It becomes even more necessary when you want to get out of the 'social pressure' of behaving 'sophisticatedly'.

You know....there exists, a RED (No need to mention, the color of danger) - COLORED BUTTON, familiar, yet very unfamiliar to us, which most of us procrastinate to press; despite knowing that it needs to be done one day.

And all it takes, is just a 'MOMENT' which can be defined as the moment generated, out of ignorance, rejection, hyperactivity, introspection & sometimes even out of escapism, depending on the kind of reality/ situation, you come across & on the 'Signature Strengths' you own.

Then it is concluded by a formal 'Dictum' from inside echoing "LET IT GO".
It can also be perceived as the final stage 'A' of the psychiatrist 'Kübler-Ross's Model' or well- known as the '5 stages of grief' - DABDA expanded on as:-
D - Denial
A - Anger
B - Bargaining
D - Depression
A - Acceptance
[About which, I came to know from an intellectual & close friend of mine:)]

So, the aforementioned, final stage 'A' is Acceptance, leading to a sort of 'M.R' or 'Mental Resilience' proving the fact that 'M.R' is neither that hard to obtain as it sounds, nor it is inherited, but is attainable with an effective series of efforts.

After it, comes the stage of 'LOVING YOURSELF' :)

And yes, it's not always like "abstracting or decluttering".... It can also be like "keeping up with harmony, respect & care". It's more relaxing, believe me :)

LIFE IS EITHER A GREAT ADVENTURE OR NOTHING.... worth said.

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