Saturday 24 October 2015

ALWAYS ACCEPT, NEVER EXPECT

√ Going through some psychology articles, I came across this beautiful post on "self-acceptance" by psychology student & blogger DANIELL KOEPKE.
Some of the observed & felt excerpts from it are as follows:

• The easiest of all, for human mind is to "feel" uncared, when people are not able to communicate & connect with you in the way you "expect"..

• And the hardest part is to believe that the way other people operate is "not about you"..

• The in between lost truth is that most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles & anxiety that the thought of asking someone else "how" they're doesn't even cross their mind.

• They're not inherently bad or uncaring, they're just busy & self-focused.

• AND THAT'S PERFECTLY OKAY :)

• It's neither an evidence of any kind of "falling" on your part, nor it makes you unlovable or invisible.

• It "just" means that those people are not very good at looking beyond their own world.

• But the real fact that you- despite the darkness you feel, have the ability to share your love & light with others. And it's a strength.

•Your work is not to "change who you're", It's to "find" people who are able to give you the connection you need.

• Because despite what you feel, YOU'RE NOT TOO MUCH. you're not TOO sensitive or TOO needy.

• You're thoughtful, compassionate & kind. And WITH OR WITHOUT any one's acknowledgment or affection, YOU'RE ENOUGH !!

• KEEP SMILING :)

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